How to Succeed at Dry January Without Feeling Deprived

You're scrolling through social media in late December, and suddenly everyone's talking about Dry January. Part of you is intrigued, maybe even inspired. You've noticed your relationship with alcohol has become a bit too automatic lately. The nightly glass of wine that's turned into two or three. The sluggish mornings and the nagging sense that something feels a little off.

But another part of you is already making excuses. You have that networking event on the 15th. Your friend's birthday celebration. And what about Friday nights, don’t those pretty much require a drink to mark the end of the week?

Here’s the thing: if you're someone who’s used to setting goals and seeing them through, why not bring that same energy here? Dry January isn’t about white-knuckling through 31 days of deprivation. It’s an experiment in self-awareness and a chance to see what happens when you shake up your routine.

Get Clear on Your "Why"

Before you do anything else, you need to know why you're doing this. And “because everyone else is” doesn’t count.

Your "why" might be rooted in simple curiosity. What would it actually feel like to go a month without drinking? Sometimes the most powerful motivator is just wanting to find out. There’s no pressure to have some deep revelation, genuine curiosity is completely valid.

Maybe you're interested in the health angle. You want to see if alcohol is messing with your sleep or making your anxiety worse. Or maybe you like the idea of the Canadian Cancer Society’s Dry January fundraiser—you get to challenge yourself while supporting cancer research and raising awareness about alcohol as a risk factor.

Maybe drinking has become too automatic, and that bugs you. Or maybe you just want to see if you can pull this off.

Whatever it is, write it down. Be specific. “I want to feel better” is too vague. Try:

  • “I want to wake up feeling rested.”
  • “I want to see if my Sunday anxiety drops.”

Those are the kinds of reasons that’ll actually stick with you when things get tough.

Stock Your Arsenal

One of the biggest mistakes people make is keeping their bar fully stocked and then wondering why they cave on day five. You’re not weak, you’re just fighting against your environment.

Clear out the obvious temptations from your home. You don’t need to dump everything, but at minimum, move it somewhere less accessible. Out of sight really does help.

Then replace it with stuff you’ll actually want to drink. Stock your fridge with things that feel like a treat:

  • Fancy kombuchas
  • Non-alcoholic spirits
  • Fresh citrus for mocktails
  • Good tea
  • Interesting sparkling waters

The good news? Even your favourites have non-alcoholic options now. White Claw, Corona, and Guinness all have zero-proof versions. You can still crack open something familiar at the end of the day—you’re just removing one ingredient. For some people, that makes all the difference. The ritual stays intact while you give your body a break.

The goal is to feel like you have plenty of good options, not like you’re punishing yourself.

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Redesign Your Rituals

Here’s what usually happens: people focus so much on not drinking that they don’t think about what they’re going to do instead. Then they suddenly have all this time and energy, and they’re not sure what to do with it.

Think about when and why you typically drink. Is it to unwind after work? To be social? To signal that you’re done for the day? These are real needs. The question is just how to meet them differently.

If your after-work drink signals "I’m done," create a new ritual. Maybe it’s a walk around the block, throwing on a specific playlist, or making that fancy tea. If drinking is part of how you hang out with people, plan activities where you have something to do:

  • Cooking together
  • Game nights
  • Trying a new fitness class

This is also the perfect time to start something new. Remember that crochet kit you bought? That book you’ve been meaning to read? The hobby you’ve been curious about? January 1st gives you a natural starting point.

Beginning something at the start of the month creates momentum—you’re not just giving something up, you’re building something.

And here’s what catches people off guard: they realize they have more time in the evening than they thought. Not just because they’re not drinking, but because they’re not dealing with the aftermath. What you do with that time is up to you.

Track What You Notice

You’re doing this as an experiment, so treat it like one. Keep simple notes in your phone about how you’re sleeping, your energy, your mood. But also notice the unexpected stuff:

  • What cravings pop up?
  • What situations are harder than you thought?
  • What’s easier?

Here’s the typical pattern:

  • Week 1: You notice what’s missing.
  • Week 2: You start noticing the good stuff—better sleep, clearer head.
  • Week 3: You hit your stride.
  • Week 4: You’re learning some interesting things about yourself.

Maybe you’ll discover your anxiety is more connected to alcohol than you realized. Maybe those afternoon energy crashes disappear. Maybe you’ll find out you do enjoy drinking, but you want to be pickier about when and why.

All of these discoveries matter. This isn’t about proving anything to anyone else. It’s about learning more about yourself.

The Real Point of All This

Dry January isn’t magic. But it is a chance to take a closer look at something that’s probably become pretty automatic in your life.

The real value is in what you learn about yourself and proving that you can change things up when you want to. You’re someone who follows through on things. This is just another way to see what you’re capable of.

So if you’re thinking about it, start planning now. January is coming. And if you want some extra support along the way, I’m always here to help.

The question is: what do you want to find out about yourself?

Olivia

Vander Vloet

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Olivia is here to support you with ADHD, the stress of work or school, tough family dynamics, big emotions, and struggles with substance use.