Trauma's effects aren't always obvious. Therapy helps you understand the impact and gradually build a sense of safety.

Trauma & Abuse

Trauma Recovery

Trauma's effects aren't always obvious. Therapy helps you understand the impact and gradually build a sense of safety.

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What is this specialty?

Trauma does not always look the way people expect. It can show up years after an event, in hypervigilance, in emotional numbness, in patterns of avoidance or self-protection that once made sense but now get in the way. What happened to you matters, and so does how it is still affecting your daily life.

Recovery work is not about reliving everything in detail. It is about understanding how the experience has shaped your nervous system and your thinking, and gradually building a different relationship to those memories and reactions. Sessions might include grounding techniques to help you regulate overwhelming feelings, approaches to identifying and interrupting trauma-based thought patterns, and work to slowly rebuild a sense of safety and trust, in yourself and in your connections to others.

We've sat with this since 2016. Our therapists average 11 years of clinical practice, and we've matched more than 23,000 Canadians.

What it can feel like

Trauma doesn't always look the way people expect. It can show up years later, in a body that braces at a tone of voice, in going numb in the middle of an ordinary evening, in avoiding a street, a smell, a kind of silence. What happened to you matters. So does how it is still living in your days. It can take over a night, then a week, then years.

You might not have a single scene you can point to. It can be one event, or a long stretch of being unsafe, or something you witnessed. Sleep gets disrupted. Startle sits close to the surface. You can look fine in a meeting and then come apart in the car. You can also feel nothing, which is its own kind of cost.

People tell you it was a long time ago. Your body did not get that memo. You may second-guess whether it was really that bad, which is often part of how the experience taught you to survive.

Therapy isn't about proving it in a legal sense, and it isn't about reliving everything in detail. It's a place to take the impact seriously, including the part of you that still thinks you should be over it.

How therapy helps

Therapy won't erase what happened. It isn't a retelling you have to complete on a deadline, and it isn't crisis response unless that's what you need. In our 50-minute sessions, what can change is how the past keeps arriving in the present: the high alert, the numbness, the avoidance that once kept you safe and now keeps your life small.

A friend might want you to talk it out. A search result might want you to forgive and move on. A therapist sits on your side of the table. They don't need a perfect timeline before they believe you, and they won't push you into the memory before you have somewhere to land.

Together you build enough safety in the room, and in your body, that the work can go at a pace you can actually use. That might mean grounding when the present starts to slip. It might mean working with a specific memory so it carries less charge. It might mean noticing the protections you still use, and deciding which ones you still need.

If the trauma has blurred into anxiety, low mood, or a diagnosis of PTSD, those can live in the same room. We'll match you with one of our 125+ licensed therapists, not a generic healing script.

Research evidence

  • Bisson et al. (2013). According to this 2013 paper, A review of psychological therapies for chronic PTSD found trauma-focused CBT and EMDR were effective compared with waitlist or usual care.
  • Watkins et al. (2018). According to this 2018 paper, A review of evidence-based psychotherapies for PTSD describes trauma-focused approaches, including prolonged exposure, cognitive processing therapy, and EMDR, as first-line options.
  • Bradley et al. (2005). According to this 2005 paper, A meta-analysis of psychotherapy for PTSD found that people who completed treatment improved substantially compared with those who did not receive trauma-focused care.

Approaches commonly used

Three approaches show up most often in our matching.

When a specific scene still arrives as if it's happening now, EMDR works directly on the charge that memory carries. You don't have to narrate every detail for it to help. The work is on how the memory is stored, not on performing the story.

When parts of you still live in the old danger, the one that braces, the one that goes numb, the one that stays very good, IFS works with those parts as protection that once made sense. The goal isn't to get rid of them. It's to help them stand down when the danger is no longer now.

Trauma-focused CBT can help when the leftover damage includes thoughts that hardened around the event, I should have stopped it, it will happen again, I am not safe, and behaviours that keep the world very small. The thoughts are treated as guesses you can check, at a pace that doesn't flood you.

What a session looks like

Sessions at Shift Collab are typically 50 minutes, weekly to start, over video. You can begin with a free 15-minute Meet & Greet if you want to test the fit before a full hour. The first appointment is usually intake. Your therapist will want the shape of what's still showing up, sleep, startle, numbness, avoidance, and what you need to be careful about. You set the pace. You don't have to recount every incident in detail on day one, and you won't be asked to.

In later sessions, the middle of the hour is the work itself: grounding in the present, mapping a trigger, or staying with a memory only as far as you can come back from. You won't be pushed into exposure without a plan, and you won't be told to get over it.

Toward the end of the hour, you and your therapist name one small thing to notice or try before next time. If a week has been especially raw, the session can stay with sleep, grounding, and who is safe to talk to, instead of going deeper. You can say when something is too much. That's part of the work, not a disruption of it.

Who it is for, and who it is not

Who it's for: you, if something that happened, or kept happening, is still running parts of your days. The brace. The numbness. The street you avoid. You don't need a single cinematic event. You don't need anyone else to agree that it was that bad. If you're still telling yourself you should be over it, that is the work. Our Fit Guarantee gives you 30 days to rematch if the first fit isn't right.

Who it isn't: if the symptoms are specifically flashbacks, nightmares, and a diagnosis or picture of PTSD, look at PTSD. If the core problem is worry without a traumatic anchor, start with anxiety. If the core problem is a heavy, empty mood, depression may be the clearer starting point. Therapy here isn't a police report, a workplace investigation, or crisis response for someone in immediate danger.

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FAQ: five questions people ask

Does therapy help with trauma recovery?

Therapy can't erase what happened. What it can change, in 50-minute sessions, is how the past keeps arriving in the present: the high alert, the numbness, the avoidance. A licensed therapist helps you build enough safety that the memory carries less charge, at a pace you can actually use.

Do I have to talk about what happened in detail?

No. You set the pace. Some approaches, including EMDR, can work with a memory without a full retelling. If talking is useful, it happens when you have somewhere to land. You can say when something is too much. That's part of the work, not a disruption of it. A 50-minute session is enough room to start.

Is this the same as PTSD?

PTSD is a specific pattern: re-experiencing, avoidance, high alert, and changes in mood or thinking after trauma. Trauma recovery is the wider page, including people who don't meet that picture and are still living with the impact. If flashbacks and nightmares are the centre, look at PTSD. If the impact is broader or quieter, this page is the better fit. A 50-minute session is enough room to start.

How do I start, and is therapy covered?

Book a free 15-minute Meet & Greet to get matched with a vetted Shift Collab therapist. Sessions are typically 50 minutes, virtual across Canada. Many extended health plans cover therapy with a registered social worker or psychotherapist. Check your insurer for the exact credential they reimburse.

Will I be pushed to forgive anyone?

No. Forgiveness is not a requirement of this work, and it is not a measure of whether you are healing. The work is safety, choice, and a life that isn't run by the past. You decide what, if anything, you do with the rest. A 50-minute session is enough room to start.

Talk with a therapist when you're ready

Book a free 15-minute Meet & Greet to get matched with one of our 125+ licensed therapists. Sessions are 50 minutes. Not right within 30 days of your first session? We'll rematch you.

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